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Sponsoring Laarni

22nd April 2007
"Sponsorship" and "crevice" used to be dirty words to me.  Now only "crevice" is.

On my first trip here, I made a conscious effort to not get involved in sponsorship.  I figured I was already paying a lot to be here, so why pay anymore?  But as a great bard once said, the times they are a-changing.

I get fired up on many issues.  Women's rights is one of them.  One great way to begin to bring a country out of poverty, is to educate the females.  Too often they are undervalued and their only real option is to get married and become a house wife.  As we all (should) know, women can accomplish so much more than a house wife*.  They can lead countries, fight for their rights and change the world.  An education unlocks this potential.

This is why I decided to sponsor a child from Pulao Elementary School, and a female in particular.  I asked Mam Thercy - a teacher at Pulao - what her thoughts were and she suggested Laarni to me.  Laarni has just graduated from Pulao Elementary School.  She is off to High School next year.  She finished third in her class and is a bright, intelligent and mature young lady. 

There were some other bright, intelligent and mature students that I could of chosen, so why did I choose Laarni?

Arleen - Laarni's mother - has breast cancer.  She has been receiving chemotherapy to try and treat it.  She says she has been praying that God will give her another ten years to live so that she can ensure her children get an education.  I don't think she has another ten years in her.  Mam Thercy tells me that whenever the word "mother" is mentioned, the tears pool up in Laarni's eyes.  She is not coping with the potential loss of her mother very well.

Laarni is the oldest of three children.  When her mother does eventually pass away, she will be expected to care for her younger sisters and drop out of her education.  This will be tragedy for all sorts of reasons.

This is, of course, where I come in.

I discussed my ideas to send Laarni to a private school with both of her parents.  They were keen to say they least.  We then discussed it with Laarni.  She was a little hesitant at first because she would miss her friends.  Her mother told me that she had always dreamed of going to a private school.  Laarni was quick to come around and agreed.

I felt good that she was now going to a private school, but not so good that she would miss her friends.  Pam Pam and Christine Joy - another couple of graduating students and close friends to Laarni - were in a similar position to Laarni.  They wanted to go to a private school, but still wanted to be with their friends.  When they heard that Laarni had gotten sponsorship, they quickly signed up as well!  Their parents can afford to pay they fees.

So now Laarni gets to go to a private school, and gets to be with her friends!  Yay!

I plan this to be a long term sponsorship of Laarni.  Not just high school, but probably university as well.  She is a good kid and deserves good things.

Some of the other students have practically begged me to sponsor them, but I just can't afford it.  Tuition, uniform, books and school trips add up to about 11,000 pesos a year ($NZ 314).  I know many worthy candidates at the school.  If you are interested in sponsoring one of them, drop me a line and we'll sort something out.


* Not that there's anything wrong with being a house wife per se.  It is a very noble calling that many educated women choose.


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